Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Things are leveling out

  A pretty positive report yesterday from Kate and Bridget (mom’s sisters). Mom’s swelling has improved, likely the effect of some medication which helps Mom’s liver process the amonia in the blood. The reduction in swelling has made her a lot more comfortable.

Friends and family have really helped out by adhering to the visitation schedule of 6-8 on weekdays. Mom’s energy is better, and she can dedicate her days to resting (and catching up on Judge Judy). Mom was looking forward to getting her hair cut today. One of the amenities of the nursing home is an on-site beauty parlor – which is nice. Simple things like that give mom a sense of normalcy and control. When life is coming at you at 100 miles an hour, its difficult to overstate the value of simple pleasures.

Andy will be heading back down to Virginia this weekend to check in with Mom. Mom’s settling into the daily schedule at the home, and is beginning to feel more at home, which is great. I haven’t heard any complaints so far, so hopefully she’s content with where she is. I suppose this is now the new normal. The important thing is that mom is comfortable, and is using the lull in the action to rest up and prepare for what’s to come.

 

1 comment:

Connie Montgomery said...

Please give your moma a hug from me. I think of her and pray for her often: that she will feel God's arms around her as He holds her close to Him and tells her over and over how much He loves her. Please tell her that I love her too.
Thanks so much for keeping us updated as to how she is doing. It helps to know specifically what to be in prayer about.
Connie Montgomery, RN
Hospice of Wake County, Inc.
conmon51@gmail.com