Just got off the phone with Mom, her spirits have been really good the last couple of days. Andy is back in town and Ryan (Mike’s Youngest/Mom’s Stepson) is driving into town with his wife Barbie tonight to visit this weekend. Mom is looking forward to seeing them.
Mom’s brother Mike and wife Loraine were visiting when I called earlier. It sounded like a really nice visit, but mom was pretty tired afterward.
Andy tells me that mom is looking a little better. The swelling has reduced, and she feels better with her new haircut. He did mention that she looks darker/tanner, which I’m afraid isn’t from her long hours lounging in the sun, but is a result of Jaundice. Regardless, she’s feeling good and she’s comfortable, That’s the important part.
Mom tells me that (aside from a few exceptions) everyone has been sticking to the visiting guideline we set up. Thank you all for respecting these requests. Mom’s quality of life is directly linked to her sense of dignity and control. Coming to visit with her on her terms, is the best gift you can give her at this point. For those of you too far afield to visit easily, please know that I am reading your comments and emails to her on a regular basis. They mean a lot to her. The well wishes have been really great for all of us.
That’s a bout it for this episode. I was kidding Mom the other day that people will start thinking she’s playing possum if I don’t have anything dramatic to post. That made her laugh, which is good. We’ll take our laughs where we can get them these days. And as for drama... I’ll take boring for as long as I can get it.
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Hello Miss Elaine. You helped me out our first 6 months at hospice by keeping me straight. You listened to all my crazy stories. We laughed and cried of the same things. You are a wonderful person and I have no doubt that God just needs you up there to help organize everthing so ya'll can watch over us. When we feel that tap to the back of the head, for sure we will know it is you trying to make us do it right. LOL. May God's peace be with you and your family. I miss you! Love, Cindy Sawyer
Dearest Eilen,
There are not enough thank yous for all your kindness with Heather (my daughter- for your sons' benefit!)this summer! She learned a great deal from you and after your lunch together, Heather was completely convinced she wants to be an event planner. She came home last May unsure she could go back to school- you made a tremendous diference in her life- your support, kind words and ever present smile. Heather is back at school and is on track to graduate in December. Whenever I think of you (which is often!) it brings a big smile to my face. You and your family stay in our thoughts and prayers. It was an honor to work with you and is a privilege to know you!! Always, Gina
I can feel you laughing at me already cause I didn't spell your name right. Love ya, Cindy
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